A journey of self discovery that leads to emotional and relational health for you and your family's future. One of the best investments you will ever make for you and your family.
Rev. Michael L. Schwartz, M. Div.
Associate Pastor of Pastoral Care
North Anderson Church of God
FAQs
Who can benefit from reading SYFF?
The book is written with expectant parents and parents with young children in mind.
Do I need to be a new or expectant parent, or a parent of young children, to benefit?
No. Any parents are likely to find this book helpful – including those who are grandparents.
Will I benefit from reading this book without participating in a group?
Yes. Individuals can read this material and benefit significantly. However there is substantial value in studying this book as part of a group. Interacting with others can give perspectives that we may miss when studying alone. Participating in a group also allows for supporting and encouraging each other in this important journey.
My children’s other biological parent is not in the picture. Can I still benefit from the study?
Yes, indeed! You can participate as a single parent. Or, if there is another significant person involved in a parenting role with your child(ren), you could ask that person to join you in doing this study.
How can I become part of a group for this study?
There are several possibilities:
1) If you are part of a faith community, introduce your pastor to this book and ask your pastor whether a group study could be organized as a ministry of the congregation;
2) If you are not involved with a faith community, see if there might be other parents interested in doing this study with you. Find a person who has the ability and interest to facilitate this group.
I had a very difficult family life growing up. Will this study stir up unresolved feelings?
Yes, it is possible that unresolved experiences and feelings will be revisited. If you feel overwhelmed by reflecting on your past or if you have a sense that you need resources beyond this study experience, please seek professional counsel. But generally, the old adage of “no pain, no gain” is applicable here. If you want to shape your family’s future in positive ways, it can involve some hard work.
Do I need to share things in the group that are uncomfortable for me?
No. The group facilitator will identify some ground rules for the group experience. You will only be asked to share what you are comfortable sharing. The group members will also be asked to commit to confidentiality. What is said and happens in the group stays in the group. As a group member you will have a role to play in creating a safe place for sharing.
Does the facilitator need to be a counselor or an expert in family systems?
No. The most important criteria for being a facilitator are the ability to guide a group through this study experience, know his/her limits, and know when someone needs to be encouraged to seek professional counsel.
Post your questions
